Monday, 10 August 2009

Pal bhar ke liye koi humein pyaar karle... Jhoota hi sahi...

Life has become too too too rigorous. Its just dumped into a ditch from where its becoming impossible to rise up. An attack from every angle has dampened things to the worst possible extent. Financial management for this month at least has put me totally on a backfoot. So many deadlines to meet and so many commitments to keep up. The requirement for the current month was somewhere to the tune of Rs 40000. My salary too was less this month due to some pending deductions. The rest had to be adjusted through borrowings. And unfortunately, every source has dried up. I have already taken a lot of favors from a lot of people. And as a natural human tendency, no one would consider helping anyone else financially. Thus, managing the scheduled payments became a real headache. But then, I just don't know what to say, God has been so so so graceful on me. He has made it possible. And that too, at the exact point of time when the deadline arose. I just don't know how to thank him for all the mercy and blessings that he has showered on me. He has never let me fail a single commitment till date. Not a single. Nothing that I can do can ever be even somewhere near to what God has given me. I know my life is one of the most difficult challenge any human has ever got. But then, my firm belief that God is always there to help me clearing all hurdles has kept me moving. My sincere suggestion to all those who feel like they have got a worst life, they don't have this, they dont have that, etc is firstly, stop cripping, crying and behaving like a mad bull. Second, God has put all questions before you and he also has all the answers. Just close your eyes and you will get all the answers. Now, which one will you choose is what determines your future. Even for this, you need to close your eyes, remember him and ask yourself the right answer, you will get. Just follow that and God will bless you with everything as you just found the right answer. All suffering in this world happens to choosing of the wrong answer, knowingly. Thats what is called as evil and going against the God's wishes. Its obvious that the evil's path will rust you

Life has been definitely cruel to me but due to this approach, an enormous amount of strength has been instilled in me to face it boldly and give a fitting reply. But whats very disappointing aspect of my life is when our own people do not stand by for us, when our own people let us go down, when our own people crip and cripple life with unneccessary things. Off late, I read an email sent by one of my friend. It was such a worthy teaching that I learnt and I wish you all too will learn from this

We all walk down the road and might dash someone by mistake. We immediately say sorry to one another with a pleasant smile and go on our ways. If its someone known, like a colleague or a friend, such behaviour improves relationships. But then, if the same happens between our own people, say, wife and husband, parents and childrens, amongst brothers and sisters, we shout on each other to get away and not stand on the way. Husband and wife at least get ready to take each other's life making this itself an issue that can even lead upto numerous days of not having food, not talking to each other and all that stuff. The question, as always is, WHY? Why does this happen? Why do we show our big kind helpful hearts to the world and our rotten a**es to our own family? What does it do more than adding pains and problems within ourselves? Why do we prove our egos to our life partner who is just another part of us? The answer is EXPECTATION. We all expect to get love from the other party. There is nothing wrong. But when 2 people dash and both are expecting the other person to say "sorry", that shall never happen and the situation will lead to sorrows. Thus, expectation kills love. Love is not a running race or a competition where one comes first and the other comes second and so on. Love is just a feeling where by we wish the welfare and happiness of our beloved ones. However, if you try to get love from someone or expecting someone to love you, you are not only doing the most foolish activity on this earth but also inviting biggest pains of life for yourself. The one and the only way to get true and genuine love is to truly and humbly give dedicated love to your beloved ones. Then see, life will be filled with love, happiness and bliss

Thats why, I have marked the title of this post as, Pal bhar ke liye koi humein pyaar kar le, Jhoota hi sahi. This is something that indicates that even a moment of love, sometimes through force or without interest, can set things right and usher millions of times of that love back into your life genuinely. Humbleness acts as an ignition. Just a single second of patience can work miracles in a relationship. It is this character that has built the world's greatest relationships. It is this behavior that can instill unlimited trust into a relationship

Hmmm... Lecture baazi bahut ho gaya... Time has come to say Alvida...

But then, even I would say in my current situation

Pal bhar ke liye koi humein pyaar kar le, Jhoota hi sahi...
Do din ke liye koi ikraar kar le, Jhoota hi sahi...

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